Close your eyes and imagine infinity as a constant graduation from darkness to light.
You are standing at one point, looking up and seeing the light and then looking down and seeing the darkness. Imagine you move closer to the light, then look back to the place where you were before. Now it looks like you were in darkness before, even if you couldn't see it at the time.
It all depends on your perception, what looks light to you can be the darkness to others, your darkness can seem bright to someone deeper in the dark.
We need to stop judging others and ourselves.
You have made so many choices that have brought you to the present. When you look back, maybe you would not make the same choices again but that doesn't mean it was wrong in the past.
That is the meaning of 'there is not right or wrong'. We are all growing in the light.
